Time and travel, two things that in themselves seem infinitely precious today, were instrumental in the evolution of luxury, as contact with other nations fuelled a desire for rare and exotic items. “Trade on a global scale is inherently connected with the idea of luxury. Since Antiquity, precious materials have been the subject of economic and even geopolitical issues,” says Gabet. “The idea of time, that which we spend transporting gold, silk or spices, the distances crossed and the idea of conquered space are just as fundamental,” he adds.

The discovery of different global aesthetics also shaped the very notion of what luxury could be. “When the West discovers Japanese ceramics, it realised that luxury and refinement can rhyme with simplicity and purity,” says Gabet. “This experience is a Copernician revolution which imposes a new idea of luxury, from the straw marquetry of Jean-Michel Frank to the little black dress of Gabrielle Chanel.”

Frank, today celebrated as one of the most radical interior designers of the 20th Century, created dramatically minimalist interiors that appealed to artistic figures such as the writer François Mauriac, who referred to his style as “the strange luxury of nothing”. Appreciation for such avant-garde aesthetics raises the question of how much luxury has been about status and how much about displaying a taste that sets one apart from the masses.

 “In Antiquity, luxury is a social and political marker of the first order, the tribute that the vanquished delivers to the victor, the gift that is offered to show respect and be respected, the objects that the Egyptians take with them to the beyond,” says Gabet. Luxurious fabrics such as velvet were considered the preserve of royalty and nobility, and from the 14th Century onwards, many societies issued sumptuary edicts prohibiting lower classes from wearing them in order to maintain their elite status.

“Gradually, however, luxury becomes a mark of individual distinction more than a social distinction; it’s this we call taste,” says Gabet.

Art of living

In 18th-Century France, taste – and the taste for luxurious objects – combined in the idea of the art de vivre, literally ‘the art of living’. Driven by a rise in the power of individualism and new forms of artistry, French elites delighted in creating pleasing living environments. At the same time, an increase in trade led to a Western passion for luxury objects from other cultures, especially Japan and China, with ceramics, lacquerware and textiles being particularly popular.

In Paris, the decorative-arts entrepreneurs known as marchands merciers, a new breed of creator, embellished existing objects such as Chinese or Japanese porcelain, mounting them on gilded bronze to enhance them or turn them into other objects such as a potpourri dish or lamp. “They are almost the first artistic directors, employing different artists and inventing collaborations,” says Gabet. “It is this particular momentum that gives birth to a decisive stage in the history of luxury.”

The 19th Century saw the demand for luxury goods dramatically expand, as a burgeoning middle class sought to provide itself with comforts, and the industrial revolution allowed for the production of everything they could desire. Charles Frederick Worth opened his Parisian fashion house in 1858, signalling the birth of haute couture. And travel itself became a major form of luxury. These trends set the groundwork for the 20th Century, as luxury became ever more aspirational thanks to the expansion of advertising and popular media. However, the excesses of the 1980s led to the “complete de-contextualisation of luxury when (it) became all about purchasing expensive things to gain competitive advantage in the world, all about the surface value,” says Martina Olbertova, founder of Meaning.Global and expert on luxury brands.

Now, confronted with the environmental and ethical cost of such consumption, the luxury industry has begun to change. Olbertova has noted a number of key trends, including the favouring of personal experiences over personal luxury, and a move away from excess and opulence towards what she terms “luxury essentialism”.

Travel is top of everyone’s wish list at the moment, but it is not simply escapism. “People want experiences that help them learn and get to know things about the place and themselves, to fundamentally help them reconnect with who they are and their own spirituality, or with nature and the world around them,” says Olbertova. Given the current circumstances, it is not surprising that luxury travel is focused on privacy, seclusion, wellness, and resorts where people can safely distance, but there is real concern that this has to be balanced with a concern for the environment. Nature-based resorts that focus on rewilding are becoming increasingly popular. It would be naïve to think that the desire for beautiful things will end, but there is a growing sense that we need less to experience more.

“There’s a shift from the obsession with ownership to only using things that have personal value. You will have these really nice, well-made objects around you to elevate the sense of things which are important in your own life,” says Olbertova. For someone who loves cooking and having friends over to share their passion, this could be a beautiful set of crockery.

“We don’t need everything to be luxurious – that’s just flashy and meaningless,” says Olbertova. “People will pick certain areas of their lives, and then use brands to elevate them – and that is very much luxury essentialism.”

Olbertova sees the longevity of luxury items becoming an important part of their appeal. We will learn how to care for them properly, so they last for years, in a decisive move away from disposable culture. Sustainability will become vital. “It should just be the thing that’s logical – these things that we see as trends need to become the new normal,” she says.

She acknowledges that we are not quite there yet. “This is a pause – it’s like a state of change, of rebalancing and recalibrating,” she says.

Let’s hope this pause leads to a new ‘art of living’. One that considers life itself the most desirable and important commodity of all.

Luxes is at the Musée des Arts Décoratifs from 15 October 2020 to 2 May 2021.

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